During Marriage

 One of the things that I was thinking about this week and was able to have a discussion about in one of my classes was the ability to have friends when you're married. Obviously it's okay to have friends while your married, but the thing that I was questioning was if it was okay to have a friend of the opposite gender. It was said that a large cause of cheating in relationships are caused by having friends of the opposite sex and hanging out with them without your spouse being there. It is still entirely possible to have friends of the opposite sex but they usually come from having friends that are a couple that you hang out with, with your spouse. I personally don't think I am going to have an issues explaining to my wife why I have so many female friends because the only girls that I talk to consistently are the ones I'm related to, but in all seriousness, I think it has been interesting learning more and more about what it is to be a couple and how to have a healthy relationship.

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